Mu bihe by’ ibyago, intambara, ibyorezo, benshi birengagiza urukundo nyarwo imitima yarangwagamo ibishashi by’ ibyishimo bishira bishibuka igahagarara, ikaganzamo intimba n’ umuhangayiko, ubwoba ndetse n’ intimba kuri bamwe bibaza uko ejo buzacya.

Dore bimwe mubyo wafasha umukunzi wawe mu bihe by’ amage,

Muhumurize

Mu bihe bikomeye humuriza umukunzi wawe (umugore/umugabo) gerageza kumuba hafi umubwira amagambo amwongerera ikizere cyuko ibintu biri hafi kurangira, umwizeze ko igihe ugihari ntacyo we n’ urubyaro rwanyu(Niba mubana/mufitanye abana) muzaba.

Gerageza gushaka amakuru ya nyayo

Kimwe mu byongerera ubukana ibihe by’ amage harimo ibihuha, gerageza ukore uko ushoboye ushake amakuru ya nyayo, uyahe umukunzi wawe, (umugabo/umugore wawe) bizabafasha gushakira igisubizo hamwe no gufata ingamba nyazo zo kwirinda.

Mwiteho kurusha uko wabikoraga mbere

Mu bihe bitoroshye udafite aho yegemira araganya agata ikiizere, muri byose banza umukunzi wawe(uwo mwashakanye) niba ufite amahirwe yo kugira umukunzi mukundana by’ ukuri, mu bihe by’ amage mwiteho byibura buri masaha atatu, abiri cyangwa isaha imwe umubaze uko ameze, bizatuma yitsa umutima kenshi aruhuke yumve ko aho yegamiye adashobora kugwa.

Muhe ikizere mu bimenyetso

Niba muri kumwe, aho ubona ikizere cyayoyotse koresha ibimenyetso, urugero: Nko kumukomeza ibiganza, kumushyira mu gituza, niba ari igikomye muri kumwe mu nzira mwitange imbere umwereke ko witeguye kumurwanirira.

Mushyire mu maboko y’ Imana

Icyo ugomba kwitaho muri ibi byose nuko nawe uri umuntu, kandi uriho kubw’ Imana nandi ariyo ishobora byose ku bayemera, mu gihe uri kwihanganisha no kuba hafi umukunzi wawe (umuryango) gerageza kubanza Imana imbere niba mwese muyemera, azabona ko utari kumwirariraho umwereka ko ushoboye byose, bizamurinde kugusaba ibidashoboka, ahubwo yumve ko aho utari Imana ihari.

Eddy Rwibutso

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